My cousin Joe passed away yesterday. I'm sad that he's gone and disappointed that he isolated himself from the family for most of his adult life I don't think he ever really appreciated that he was loved and accepted despite his personal struggles. I'm sad for my aunt and uncle (no one should ever outlive their child) and sad for the family bonds that were broke and never fully healed. I hope you are at peace, Joe. Or at least, you aren't struggling anymore.