If you're pregnant & using mom groups to find service providers (ob's/midwives/Doulas) don't just write: Searching for X provider serving X location. Instead write: Searching for X provider who supports X outcome in X location. Searching for doula who supports unmedicated births in a hospital setting. Due in December 2024. Searching for midwives who attend birth center births in Orlando. Due in November. Searching for an ob at Made-up Hospital who will listen to my desires and not rush me