Yes. Absolutely.

Sexuality is a spectrum. I suspect it changes over life for a lot of people too. Some people are only attracted to individuals regardless of their gender. Don't worry about labels, just be you ❤️

Absolutely. Sometimes it’s also a matter of admitting it to yourself, due to a lot of stigma around it growing up. I had my first crush on a girl AND my second on a boy when I was 11. I called myself, “Straight, but sometimes I just think guys are hot. I’m totally not gay though,” until I was 46, because as a kid having homosexual attraction was the worst thing. It was harder to admit that I was bi and allow myself to feel attracted to men, than it was to admit that I was trans to myself.

Obviously it's possible

I was 36

Not only possible, but perfectly normal. Who you are is a work in progress, and not only will you keep discovering new things about yourself, you'll keep developing new facets to discover

Take a look at the Lesbian Masterdoc. I’m not suggesting one can be only straight or lesbian/gay. Your sexuality is for you to define. However the doc helps unpack a lot of the comphet messaging in our culture. https://ia802308.us.archive.org/24/items/am-i-a-lesbian-masterdoc/Am%20I%20a%20Lesbian_%20Masterdoc.pdf

I wasn't allowed to explore what or who I was. (Overly religious family.) I still question it, I'm 34. Just now figuring out who I am.

I’m 29 and just came to terms with being on the spectrum of asexuality this year. 😬

Yes, of course it is! And you don't even have to figure it out completely if you don't want to. I just call myself queer now because I have no idea anymore.