Don’t take anything wrong because I’m honestly asking because I want to know and learn from this!! Ok so he put stuff down where it was supposed to be. U asked him more than once to get it, but he didn’t. Yall leave and I assume it’s still there.. You turn around and blame yourself for your kid not doing what you told him to do over and over. Why, how, will that help in the future of being responsible when times gets hard when he has to persevere.