We first met through Chatkool and we've been talking for 2 days already sa ig and inaya ko siyang mag-Starbucks kahit hindi niya alam na this will be our 1st date actually. I told her good mornings, updates, but she's not into that and even daily convos sa chats. Sabi niya yon, then dagdag pa niya na she's up to having casual friends and I understand what my ka-talking said and I'm okay with it. The problem is, we haven't video chatted together yet kahit na sa Saturday na sana 1st date namin.

My now hubby and I met in a dating app. We both established at the very beginning that we will not video/audio call, kasi we both don’t feel comfortable. Chat or text lang talaga. We add each other sa social media so we know we are a real person. Then we met after a few weeks. Wala naman talagang kasiguraduhan kung 100% ganun ba itsura nila in person from the profile. Pero di mo malalaman kung di mo susubukan.

masyadong off yung message mo po kuya. I think kahit sino, ganyan ang irereply sayo.

catfish alert! lol

red flag

I get you bro as having a fear of getting catfished. Mostly kasi yung iba sa soc med mga trans yet they don't declare it at the very first but may mga iba namang nag dedeclare rin. For me lang, siguro, natakot siya sa approach mo. Ang way ko na lang to avoid being catfished is by stalking skills na lang talaga if they're real or not. But not through vid calls

Understandable feelings nyo both but i think too early pa for the both of you na magkita and ayain sya mag vc and date, literal na rush. Kung ako rin sa kalagayan nya mao off ako at ib block kita. Marami pa ring mga babae na old fashion, like gusto kilalanin muna bago sya maging comfy magpakilala sayo in person.

delusional ka sir

Leap of faith kasi yan bro.. if they say they’re real just trust. at the end of the day pareho lang naman kayo tumataya.

It's not enough to know each other kahit 2 days lang. For example for me di ako mahilig makipag video call kasi di ako comfortable. You should make it more days para maging comfortable siya sayo since di pa naman kayo nagkikita.