My current WIP has a couple of scenes that span 3 chapters (admittedly I intercut a bit between two or three things happening simultaneously)

I know a lot of us these days are real concerned about word counts, but I just read Half of a Yellow Sun by Chimamanda Ngozie Adichie and it has plenty of looooong chapters. And it's a beautifully crafted story. I personally wouldn't sweat about the word count. Create any chapters of any length that fit your vision and voice for the story.

You can totally split it as long as you have a good tag line or a dramatic shift somewhere in the middle.

I spread my longer scenes over several chapters, otherwise even I get bored!🤣

I like to believe chapters have very few rules. If that scene has natural breaks (like phases to a plan or mid scene twists), multiple chapters feels fully acceptable. Others have already said it, but I'll agree: I tend to prefer shoeter chapters that "feel" manageable.

Cutting off a scene at a critical moment and picking it up in the next chapter is a great way to build tension and keep the reader reading!!!

I don’t think that’s a problem but I do like to break it up with the other plot lines, plus that way it’s a great chance to end chapters on a cliffhanger

Absolutely a scene can span multiple chapters. In fact, it's a common fiction technique to break a suspenseful scene up so the reader doesn't put down the book at the end of the chapter.