Kids are expensive and everyone is broke. Kids are terrible and a lot of us had to parent our younger siblings because our parents refused to, so we already know how fucking terrible kids are. Kids are often used by one partner as a method of control over the other, another thing we got to witness first had growing up and don’t want done to us. The world is on fire and it’s a serious ethical question whether it’s okay to bring sentience screaming out of the void into a world this fucked.