In a pub in Wandsworth, I open the door to the restroom and run into an 80 yr old man: Me: Oh my goodness, I’m so sorry, is this not the ladies? Him: It’s alright my love, we’re all pretty gender fluid these days. But <adds in an aside> I’ve heard the other ones are cleaner. Then with a wink he walked away. How lovely is that? No muss, no fuss, plus humor. loveislove