100%. 20 years together, last 5 she was having a downward spiral of mental health issues that she refused to get help for. She flipped out so bad she destroyed my career, her own career, countless opportunities for our daughter, and I would up spending a year in jail no bond 100% due to false allegations and police errors. She now has custody of our straighter while I wait for these charges to drop, and yeah...I don't know who she is. I don't think I ever did.