tolong ye, getting marry is not a race nor a competition. It’s a lifetime commitment and responsibilities. If you’re not ready, please don’t get marry just to hop in the trends. jangan tengok kawan-kawan you dah kahwin then you pressure your boyfriend ajak kahwin juga. Please reserve your feminine energy. If your man is man enough he’ll know what he’ll need to do. Unless his intention towards you is different then why are you staying in the relationship for?