I watched a senior man 65+ telling his friend he was in love with a girl like his friend wouldn't beleive... (in the way that is normally followed by, aI think I might marry her) and his age 50 something friend interrupted him urgently and loudly just saying "No! Get out! Get out now, man!" And we wonder why the world is fucked... Like at what age is it safe for a dude to WANT to settle down without other dudes trying to bully or scare him out of it?