Find God.... as much as you ignore shit now, the older you get the more you gonna want someone to be there for you and kids to make your life happy. Shit im 30 as a male, which means my options actually increase as i age and i be scared to not finding real love. I cant settle for just anyone so i mean like real love. It gets slow for ya after 27, trust me seek God man cus it saddens me that yall been lied to and now ya all single and pretending to be happy.