I am also bothered by preferring women as chick's. When I go Tango dancing, I do not care who the woman is I am asking to dance with. Of course, I have an issue if I did not have a good time dancing with her before. Plus, with only mediocre dancing skills, I am leary of the ladies who dances like they are pros and not respecting the skill level of their dance partner. That being said, there are those that in both dancing and relationships have a narrow preference of people they want to be with