You do not have to be pro-abortion because you had one. People get divorced, it doesn’t mean they are pro-divorce. People have taken something at some point in their life that didn’t belong to them, it doesn’t mean they have to identify as a thief now. Everyone messes up, it doesn’t mean you are forever messed up. What matters is where your identity comes from. If it comes from media, society, and politics, it will never tell the truth about you.