Black women(not all) here is a message from a man. Take the time to listen. Do not paint your own picture before the instruction are given (please stop thinking so negative before someone tells you what’s wrong) take the time to hear someone out. As a man when i have a woman who meets me with aggression and anger instead of love and compassion when her man comes that way to her because he needs to talk. You miss out on important things that could help your relationship………