TW SA I was also abused by someone who blamed it on being autistic and was always quick to call me ableist if I tried to defend myself. I could go on for hours about the shit he did. Pretty sure he's still telling ppl I'm the problem. Sorry buddy, but treating your partner like 🗑 and trying to force them to sleep with you isn't autism, you're just abusive. Oh. & I guess I'm ableist for suggesting we break up so we could both work on ourselves, since I was "just as abusive." (Lmfao) Go figure.