Yesterday after solving a day job emergency caused by a bunch of things outside of my control, my husband took me for ice cream. Because he's a "little treat" husband. I was tellint him all about RARE and how when I get to the point where I'm doing signings I'm going to need him to go with me as my emotional support person. And he said "I like that you said when, instead of if." Because this community has helped me to believe I can do this.