We are hungry for love

Skill issue on your part

They don’t, they get attached and possessive which is more about control than love

Water in the desert these days maybe? Spent too long out in the middle of nowhere under the sun of loneliness, idk. I’m making shit up. Depends on the guy I guess as I can’t speak for anyone else.

I think most people dont actually fall in love with another person. They actually fall in love with a dream of the life they want to have first. When they meet someone they believe can make that dream a reality, then they transfer that love to that person. If a man doesn’t have a dream, then he doesn’t have love to transfer to a woman. If a man falls for you fast, its most likely lust confused for love. But if it is love, its because you look like someone that can make his dream a reality.

Inner beauty + Outer beauty = rare especially if they are caring on top of it men will wait half their lives to meet a woman like that so...ya...they will fall faster if you meet the criteria

You will never understand.

Guilty as charged. I don’t know the answer to the “why” question, but I think it’s on us dudes to cool our jets early in the relationship to give her space and time to settle in.

We were in love with an image of you before we ever met you; the hope of filling in the portrait sometimes manifests as a ham-fisted attempt at shoehorning a stranger into this image.

That’s not love. It’s either an effort to control outcomes using affection - or its obsession with an idea. They don’t have enough info to be truly in love for quite a while, period. As a mentor told me - a crush is almost always just a lack of information.