I’m allowed to be tired, even though I don’t work outside the home. I’m allowed to be hot when overheating in 100° temps after doing chores. I’m allowed to be sick or not feel well on some days it’s part of being human. I’m tired of being 1up’d or made to feel guilty for these things, or given the silent treatment because i do human things. The next book in my to read list is about co-dependacy, my therapist recommended it. She thinks I’ve been doing too much for far too long.