Many of my clients are people pleasers, & one of the things that they always tell me is how much time and energy they spend thinking about what other people need. And not just what other people need - especially what their parents need. Besides many of the other reasons why this might be a challenge, this also makes them feel who’s gonna take care of me? And the core of it all there is an abandonment energy. It’s making sure that everybody’s needs are taken care of so that you’re valuable to ppl