You know, watching @secretlivesonhulu - while it is a very blown up, caricature of the perfectionism, mean-girl-ism, shaming culture, and score keeping of spiritual worthiness that I remember as a young person in the church - those are actual problems within the culture. I hope before members rush to defend the church, they start asking the church (and THEMSELVES) to address how they've contributed to the behaviors they're so appalled by...