Totoo talaga na what you don't know won't hurt you. Never been there pero gets ko where you're coming from. Maybe you can try going to a counseling, uso ba yun dito? Siguro importante dyan let's say you forgive him, dapat hindi sya magbabago, kung pano ka nya itreat dapat that will stay the same. Kasi kaya pala sya ganun kadedicated dahil meron siyang kasalanan and secretly making up for it. Kung magbabago siya kasi pinatawad mo na sya eh, dun ka na mag-isip.