Excuse my ignorance but I have never understood the reason folks get mad at another persons preference. I’ll never understand it cause it makes zero sense. I had 12 sisters (only boy) and raised by primarily women. So, I learned along time ago I won’t fit into the majority of women’s standards and that’s ok cause the woman who wants me will make it known and vice versa. Let people be and leave it alone. Wait for whom you ultimately want become what you want in a partner. FreeGame