Stoicism, the ultimate, this-life-does-not-revolve-around-you-and-here-is-a-way-to-make-this-fact-suck-less pill. Like literally, it really does away with this notion of expectation (i.e., this self-aborbed and false idea that life or God is supposed to conform to your will). Neither is beholden to your will, and you will certainly learn this fact or you're going to be continually disappointed, frustrated, and depressed.