“If you start to name yourself by one little thing, you know, like, “I have insecure attachment,” what are you saying about yourself? Why do you want to reduce yourself to one over-important label? Also, what this does is put clinical terminology into the hands of nonclinically trained people who then weaponize it.” That last part. Whoa! I’ve had the unfortunate experience of a friend weaponizing a personal share. It’s awful. Always tricky to find the line.