As I said in Step 4 of my last video, don’t run away from that energy you just created! I used to do this all the time and a coach had to start pointing it out to me: I’d kill the compliment and the introduction with all this sexual energy and the girl’d love it…but then I let my nerves own me and I’d start talking from my head and anxiety instead of staying in that sexual tension-filled space. Stay in the tension! That keeps things from going all platonic and dying.