I see so many ppl bashing others for being 30yrs or older with no kids. Nobody ever stops to think why. Just automatically assume we are the problem. Guess what? Some of us had family urgencies that took majority of our time. Some of us decided to focus on school and not a relationship. Some of us decided to work and get on our feet before dating. Some of us put our mental health first in order to heal from trauma. Before you point any finger with your judgement. Look in the mirror. SELF REFLECT