my ex was doing this without my knowledge & had her SLEEPING in the same bed as them along with her kid as well 😭😭😭 safe to say she is now not allowed to go over 🤷‍♂️

Do not . Better safe then sorry .

I'd be okay with it IF we had each other's contact info. But that's for anyone. Generally speaking, I trusted my son's dad so I trusted him to make good choices with our child.

sadly if it’s dads time mom has no say. as much as it bugs me that it might not be him with our baby every time, i don’t get to make that decision.

Nope and i will come get my child! Its not even they fact they aren't together that is none of my concern. I need to have met this woman and have her telephone number & she have mines in case of emergency. It goes the same way for me the childs father will meet who i am serious about and they both have their numbers.

That last part I wouldn’t give at but no we gotta know each other

Are they not in a relationship according to what he tell you or in real life?

Hell to the NAWWW. Absolutely not. Never ever.

Mom sounds entitled. You can’t control that man’s house. You want you kid to be over there, that’s what you have to deal with 🤷🏽‍♀️

I say no because same with us if we don’t see a Long term relationship with them we shouldnt just let anybody around our child