Not all single mothers need you to save them. Not all single mothers need you in order to take care of their kids. Not all single mothers have drama with their kids dad(s). Not all single mothers are damaged and hard to love. Some single mothers are just women and want the same thing a childless woman wants. Consistency, respect, love, to feel safe, to feel appreciated, security, support mentally and emotionally, most of all to not feel like she’s wasting her time with someone