It’s depends I grew up with a father who provided for my mother. But I also grew up with a mother who didn’t just enjoy sitting on her ass. My parents been together since they were 16. They’re in their 50’s. Traditional men were meant to provide. I don’t understand why this new generation finds the need to try to rewrite everything when it comes to what a man is suppose to do but expect women to continue to do the same thing. I also notice men who complain grew up with single mothers.