When I think about my upbringing compared to my older and younger siblings, and ours compared to friends, I find that honesty became more of a priority over time. So my younger siblings are more straight forward with their honesty, while us older are more hesitant. BUT we’re all very sensitive. BUT Our parents have always valued honesty highly, so in comparison to some of our counterparts whose parents prioritized obedience, they are often a lot more reserved about their sensitivities.