sometimes you see a guy out in public and he clearly put effort into his look and you know nobody else is going to say it so you have to and I'm mostly taking about black guys here because a lot of them really value their appearance and I've never gotten any side eye or anything (maybe once) they're always really appreciative so I don't think I'm coming across as gay? but like pretty girls hear how pretty they are all day long and the fellas need to hear it too

It’s the ultimate sign of being completely comfortable with your friend/friends. My best friend is gay and I even do it with him hahaha