My 15-year-old came home upset after a church event. She’d been playing football with a group of boys. And while she’s a good athlete — definitely faster & more talented than a lot of the boys — they mostly ignored her, and the QB refused to throw to her. “I don’t understand,” she said. “It’s not fair.” I told her I knew what it was like; it happened to me many times growing up. Boys don’t let girls play because it allows them to keep believing girls *can’t* play What I didn’t tell her, 1/