Yes you can move on without the talk, but definitely not easy. For me Once i forgive myself it helps. Especially because it’s not like I don’t see what was happeningit’s the taking action sooner part. And I think every person or experience you learn from. And actions towards you were the best communication for me to see where I stood in their Lyfe. And knowing your own Worth helps the Closure as well for me at least. You can always write a letter saying everything and tearing it up afterward.