In Spain, if you bring uninvited friends to a hang out is that rude or ‘more the merrier’? I made plans with a friend to get coffee and she brought her friend with her. Is this a hit she doesn’t want 1-1 time with me or is this normal?

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一小時內	Maica Calderón maica_calderon	Pretty common. Getting your friends to get your other friends is nice
3 小時內	kracio	If she told you in advance and you are fine with it, it's one thing. But if she shows up with someone just like that, that's a lack of respect in my book.
4 小時內	D. F someone.witty	For some it may be normal in the Balkans ppl do it a lot too but I personally don’t enjoy it. Not a group person
7 小時內	Analí nalisaiz	Did you specifically tell her that you wanted 1-1 time? It would be rude if you told her and she brought some else along.
13 小時內	Eve Cathcart evecathcart	I can only speak for myself, but if you are an expat it seems normal. If you want a 1-1 time ask your friend for it, be specific
14 小時內	Silje Marie🤍 siljemarieedle	Take it as a compliment🥰 She want the people she loves to have a connection😍🥰🥰 share love
14 小時內	Silje Marie🤍 siljemarieedle	And just a tip, talk to your friend. Tell her what you feel and let her explain what she feels. Communication is beautiful and the only way how we learn to understand each other
15 小時內	Eva Garcia Osuna einna.vk	Pretty normal :) But usually it's better to ask in advance, just dropping a text to say it.
19 小時內	carolina 🫧 • lifestyle ccarolinabelen_	For me it is rude. Just tell me if you’re bringing someone along! My friends have NEVER done that.
一天內	Vick Fichtner vickfichtner	It's normal but you usually let the person know ahead, "do you mind if I bring a friend" or "I was a meeting a friend today, do you mind if she/he joins us?"