Bisexual men don't need to be visibily Queer to prove that they're bi, there's no one way alley to feel attracted to both sexes. Please stop inquiring people of their romantic orientation it is not your business. Non-binary men/people do not owe you androgyny and can still wish to pass the binary to their own extent, leave Internalised racism, sexism, homophobia and transphobia in the past.