The boys participated I don’t think the girls knew

I don’t. If you look at a similar situation with Vince McMahon where his kids perhaps knew about the affairs but didn’t know the depravity of it and the illegal acts that took place. Once they both found out they immediately stepped down from there roles and distanced themselves from him

I feel like the sons definitely knows.

I imagine and purely speculating that his daughters had no idea? Similar to R.Kelly’s children? They must be beyond devastated to say the least. How do you even rationalize dad being part monster, part parental unit?