Either forgive her fully (for you, not for her) & start anew kayo. Or let yourself be free. Kasi hindi ka patatahimikin ng thoughts mo. And let’s be real - kung mahal ka, hindi gagawa ng intentional na makakasakit. As much as it hurt you, she was very much aware of her actions. You used the word caught. It’s basic to assume na had you not learned about it, hindi niya sasabihin. Pwedeng sweep under the rug & make bawi to you to lessen her guilt, but still without telling you.

Like sa nangyari samin ng husband ko he cheated on me and nagka anak sya sa iba while i'm away and working as an ofw masakit walang kasing sakit but i forgave him,yes martyr siguro ako😀i 'm the one trying na mabuo kami but the trust is not there anymore yung ang hirap na ibalik pero we still together eto pa din ako sa abroad dun sya sa Pinas and yung love di na ako sure...

you a certified SIMP dawg.. obviously you have no clue what the rule of fight club is 🤣

nood ka ni Shera na sprinkle sprinkle. the more you forgive your partner, the less he sees you as a valued woman.

Magandang tanungin niyo po kung totoo man wag kayong matakot ibreak ang isang tao 🙃kahit anong isip natin at ingat kung siya naman aalis rin wala tayong magagawa ang magandang tanggapin nalang natin ...kung nagbabago naman bigyan ng chance maganda din kasi pagusapan ng maayos para malaman niyo ang isa't isa

Finding out that he’s cheating on you is already your wake up call. Looks like it wasn’t enough for you to snap back to reality. If you want to save the relationship instead of gaining back your peace of mind, self love & self-esteem, especially self-RESPECT, then communicate. Overthinking and suppressing everything won’t do you any good. You need to let it all go, ung pain, yung relationship, siya & ung sarili mo.

Just pray don't forget that he Will listen and guide you at the right path and ease All ur worries 🙏

Hindi mo dapat pinatawad. Pinatuwad mo dapat

I got cheated on by my husband also and sa katrabaho niya pa! I swallowed all hurt and tried to mend the relationship but wala na talaga. I thought magbabago siya for us ng anak niya but he didn't. Bumalik pa din siya dun sa babae niya. As a favor for them, I packed all our bags and left. Sobrang hirap ibalik ang tiwala kapag nasira na. It's the foundation every relationship and without it, you're prone to crumble.

Hi there! Married ako with two kids. Gave up my military career just recently to take care of kids. 7 years married then I found out my husband cheated (military din sya) . Yes, nakakabaliw talaga. Naisip ko Sana di ko nalang ginive up career ko.