Virgo... The Virgo men I've encountered have "attempted" to manipulate me into believing I'm not "worthy" of what they feel a woman should be pursuing/chasing. One in particular used my two children as a justification for being "used and unworthy". The interesting thing though is that I have a Virgo vertex in my chart in the 7th house so... Although the encounters were uncomfortable, they've helped push me towards my path of individual independence and stability.