At what point does a narcissist stop being a narcissist when they “do the work”? I saw a person I’m sure I’ve seen before on TT say they were seven years into therapy but still identify as a narcissist. At what point can you say you’re a FORMER or do you want to remain such forever? The opposite of a narcissist isn’t someone who never has a self-serving thought or action. There are people who do or say narcissistic things at moments but aren’t classified full on