As an adult, with two grown, professional children, I had that kidney infection with horrendous chills, high temp (104.5). My son had taken me to the ER and it really didn’t occur to him to ask questions. (OK, so I somehow raised THAT man…. Still a grad student then. He’s better now.) I asked what questions I was able and the doc only told me I had a UTI. I never got more info til several YEARS later when I was told I had developed stage 3 kidney disease. My records showed that I had had a