It's their decision bro there is no excuse on it it means they clear about their decision it's not selfishness you can demand what you need

No it’s not selfish. It’s a personal choice.

That's not selfish. Because after all, life is a choice. If your principle is not to have a relationship with someone who already has children, it is no different from the principle of someone who doesn't want to be close to someone who already has a spouse. It's more selfish if you say you love and acknowledge their children too but your attitude doesn't really show it.

No it is not selfish at all, it shows a strong sense of boundaries. You know what you are willing to deal with and what you won’t.

I don’t think it’s selfish — setting boundaries in relationships is smart. I believe people with children should date others with kids. As a mom, my priorities won’t align with someone without kids, and it’s unrealistic to expect them to understand the complexities of parenthood. You deserve a partner who can give you the time you need. Wanting to experience parenthood together isn’t selfish — it’s about finding someone whose life aligns with yours.

Nope you like what you like don’t downgrade your expectations and your desires for somethjng that’s not your cup of tea

I can say, you can always want what you wish but you can't always get what you need as exactly. Just one thing can't be what you want. It's a good thing to focus your mind in things you need and pray about it. I'm a mother of 2 but one I have never met only got a chance to carry her in my womb.

Not selfish at all. No drama from ex's, no need 2 play step-parent, no tolerating getting together for bdays, holidays or special events.

You could choose not to date at all, it's 100% optional. So having standards for whom you will or will not date isn't selfish. No one owes anyone romantic attention.

No. Not at all. People need and want different things.