Have you ever felt a little bit mad when someone praised you for being “SO resilient”?For many first-gen, resilience isn’t a choice; it’s survival. It often stems from navigating systems without a blueprint, carrying family expectations, or constantly pushing through emotional fatigue. While resilience is admirable, it can also feel dismissive of the deeper struggles behind the strength. Instead of solely acknowledging our endurance, let’s also celebrate our joys, healing, and the right to rest