2,3,1 your kids become your number one priority, your wife then becomes your second priority remembering happy wife happy life and she will love you more knowing the children will always be looked after then your mom who has been your priority until you met your wife and had children she will understand as she has been the child the wife and the mother

Children, Wife, Mom the children come first. as they should for the wife. the wife comes second, you're the chosen one. you SHOULD take priority. the mom comes last, if the moms above everything, ur a fucking loser, no matter how much you love your mother or how close you are, there are things more important in life at the end of the day.