Do you have feelings for this woman like she has for yoy. Being brought up One way is one thing but the heart wants who the heart wants Does ur heart feel the same for your friend

"I wasn't brought up that way"? What does that even mean?

This is what I’d do… Tell her that you’re flattered, that if you ever would want a lesbian relationship, she’d be the one, but you are hetro and you prefer men! To understand and to be humble is rhe best way to go

Avoid Her by all.means. It's Man to Woman not Woman to woman.

I had similar experience. The only way is cordially avoid her till she disappears from your life.

Maybe tell her and not us. Why would you think this is some conundrum, because she’s a woman? Do what you’d do if she were a man you only wanted as a friend.

just let her know w complete honesty and remember to not shame her for her feelings or preferences

Time to find new friends for both of your sakes. Once she is over you perhaps you can be friends again.

I love how you bring in the, I wasn't raised to be with a woman. Why would you even add that to your question? If you have no interest in being with her or any woman that is fine, But don't tell her that you don't want it because of how you were raised. It's because you're not gay!

Sexuality is not '' how you were brought up''. If you aren't interested, just tell her. Either way, it sounds like you have a fundi mental misunderstanding of human Sexuality