RE: fetish As an Asian who spent a huge chunk of her life in North America, I would be lying if I said I have never experienced any situations in which I was fetishized. To add on to my “Asian” face, I enjoy body modification, and that attracts another crowd that thinks I’m into fetish-y stuff. So yeah, you can imagine the looks I got over the years. Am I used to it? Yes. Am I comfortable by it? No. Please do not treat us Asians as an object. Compliment us as “beautiful” is okay, but (cont)