I am the same way 😭 believe it or not. But you literally just have to wear wtv tf you want!!! And not care about what other people may think. In Some outfits I feel so self conscious bc of my rolls and cellulite but at the end of the day… guess what??? The day gone end whether you wear the outfit or not. Start slow.. with a top you wouldn’t dare wear with maybe a shawl or light jacket.. then just work ur way up!

Piggy backing here…i also like to get a last look in a full length mirror b4 leaving out. Sit in that moment a bit & channnel your inner confidence. Remember that look & feeling while you’re going about your day.

I’m a girdle wearer.. I don’t feel right if I don’t wear it with certain outfits. Definitely wearing one in all my pics I posted.

Also just buying clothes that fit vs trying to squeeze into clothes that used to fit. When I gained weight I haaaaated how I looked in my same clothes and then dreaded shopping for larger sizes — but squeezing into a size 12 when I was an 18 was NOT the look. The size 18 were more flattering and I felt less like a sausage casing lol

I totally understand. But also belly and rolls do NOT ruin an outfit, honestly I like to think of my belly and rolls as accessories!

I feel the same way 😭

Yeah me too.. but with good girdle I think my tummy will be fine I think 😄.. I'm a mom of three but I want to be fashionable plus size I'm just too scared hahaha so now I wear boring clothes like this pic

How you see yourself, others don’t feel the same way. You’re beautiful, wear it girl!!

Dgaf I look at my belly my rolls sometimes I love them sometimes I hate them but all the time ima love me regardless because I df bomb 😘 and can’t no one tell me otherwise 🤷🏽‍♀️

I think you are not feeling confident enough to realize you be looking good. Wear what fits if you clean and smelling good go for it. You purchased it, wear it. 💜