Specific shoutout to people saying I’m rude for sharing close to anonymous details about a situation I was put in. The only people who would recognize the couple in question would be the couple themselves and some of the other groomsmen. This is a list of facts and one opinion/question at the end asking if it’s rude because I think it is. If they feel shamed by me stating the facts of the situation, then I suppose that would be final answer to my question, right?