I understand where you are coming from, base on your responses, if you think he is noway capable of his finances, then encourage him to open an account for your future plans, where both of you could save up. And if he rejects the idea, then you are marrying the wrong one. Life is short, there are things you can assist him with, but if he isn't willing himself, why wait for nuts?

Talk to him about sa plans niya sa relationship niyo. And about sa pagbili niya ng bagay para sa sarili niya, let him lang as long as di naman affected yung mga need niyo unahin. Isipin mo nalang sinusulit niya lang na kayo palang dalawa,kasi im sure kung may plano siya sainyo, mag-iiba na priorities niya kapag kinasal na kayo and may mga anak na.

Bakit ka Kasi nag No doon sa una haha

It's nothing to do with him buying things. It's you not getting what you want. Just because. Go figure.

Seen enough advices for you from women here in comments and yet you still justify that you hate the ways of your man. If you’re unhappy girl just leave. Your feelings are valid we hear you okay. Just make sure you improve yourself too on your next relationship.

6yrs live in muna kami tapos may isang anak bago ako inaya mag pakasal. Intay kalang darating din kayo jan sa kasalan moment niyo.

All I can say is hindi pa sya ready magpakasal sayo. Maybe may mga bagay pa sya na gusto nya makuha muna before kasal. Like goals or new house, new car etc.. Nakakapagod tlga mghintay pag alam mo sya na tlga for you.. Ako nawalan na lang ako ng gana.. napagod na din maghintay.. nndun na ako sa point na magpakasal kami o hindi.. okay lang sa akin.. when it comes to his money he can spend it the way he wanted to be

I don't see anything wrong kung bumili mn xa ng footwear nya. Sayu din nmn nanggaling na ngaun lng xa nkaluwagluwag let him enjoy his money 1st kc pg nd pa tlga xa ready mgpakasal wla ka mgagawa. Everything takes time kc pgkasal na iba na priorities.

Ate baka kasi hindi pa siya mentally ready for marriage. Kahit na po nagpag usapan niyo na yan mababago at magbabago talaga desisyon niya. A real man knows his priorities pero kung di yun yung priority niya wala ka talagang magagawa niyan. Base on his answers na "planning on it" ang tanong po kasi is hanggang kailan? Hindi na man po kasi lahat same page na kagaya mo na gusto na talagang pumasok sa marriage life kasi may anak na kayo.