As a man, I’m aware of the fraudulent conditions of the whole concept so I don’t believe in them at all. But if I did, mine would be words of affirmation.

Love languages aren't real, so if a man told me that was his, I'd just walk away.

I am also of the side that believes whatever they seek from their love language is whatever they lack. However unconsciously or consciously, my lack of touch has made me gave up on it altogether and I seek other more plausible aspects like quality time because people these days, attention giving is another currency that’s drying up

It took me a long time to learn what my love language was, found out it was PT, and then found out my wife wasn't at all. Very hard to deal with. That being said, I do know there's lots of guys who aren't into all that.

Men are typically words of affirmation and physical touch because of scarcity. Women are acts of service for the same reason

My boyfriend’s is words of affirmation! I think he might’ve said different if asked outright, but I had him take the quiz :) it was nice to learn, and now he gets lots of love notes

Yeah was married to one. 🫠😞

Yes. He is on the asexual spectrum.